In life, there are days and moments where everything we do does not feel enough, or face situations that are beyond our control. A common response to such instances is to doubt ourselves and our abilities, and that is a very normal and human thing to do. But the effect of self-doubt can cut both ways: It can either spur us to achieve our goals and thereby boost our confidence levels, or cause us to feel entirely powerless and paralysed. Fortunately, whether we allow it to work for or against us is mostly up to us. In this issue, we will explore the ways in which we can harness self-doubt to build confidence -- one step at a time. | Moving from Self Doubt to Self Confidence It would be nice if moving from self doubt to self confidence just came naturally. However, moving from self doubt to self confidence is a practice you can adopt, with practice. When you are able to identify where your insecurities lie and what is stopping you from feeling confident, you can then start the process of moving from self doubt to self confidence. You will be able to work on eliminating the blocks that are keeping you from moving through life with assuredness. Here are some of the culprits for the patterns of self doubt and ideas for what you can do about them. | Why confidence and knowledge can lead to smart money decisions Two common areas that cause people to procrastinate financially are knowledge and confidence. Logically, we know that financial literacy can boost our confidence to make informed money-management decisions. Yet, many people tell me that they lack the confidence to learn and absorb that financial knowledge, which holds them back. However, everybody is capable of effectively managing their money. While some need mindset adjustments, others need a confidence boost or a little reassurance that they are on the right track. Take small steps, follow and when doubt starts to creep in, remind yourself that money is only a tool and you are learning. | 9 Habits That Are Destroying Your Confidence | Proudly Brought to You I seek to reach out to people who believe in safeguarding the interests of their loved ones. Let me know if I can be of help to someone you know or care about. We can make a difference to lives when it matters most. Cheers. | Vivian Yong | | | | unsubscribe | You are receiving this email because you're my client, a friend or you've given permission to receive this email. If you'd rather not receive our emails, you can unsubscribe from our mailing list by clicking 'Unsubscribe' above. DISCLAIMER This is not an official AIA newsletter. The views and opinions expressed in this publication are those of the author and do not reflect the official policy or position of AIA Singapore Private Limited (Company Registration No. 201106386R) (AIA), any other agency, organisation, employer or company. Assumptions made in the analysis are not reflective of the position of AIA other than the author. © Vivian Yong, All rights reserved. | | | Si Hui, Interior designer I was looking to have some financial planning and healthcare coverage for myself and was recommended by my friend who has been working with Vivian for a couple of years. The consultation process was smooth and easy to understand to ensure my needs and demands were met. I also appreciate that she provides me updates and extra details to make a sound decision for myself. | | | Patricia, Nursing Student I can tell that Vivian is very passionate in what she does and committed to help clients meet their needs and goals. During our meetings she always listens intently and demonstrates her professionalism and integrity. It’s a pleasure to work with her as her positive attitude always brings joy to the conversations and allow us to end of the meeting on a good note, while addressing my needs and wants. | | | Tommy, Videographer I like her straightforward approach to focus on my needs and wants and not recommend plans that I do not need at my current stage of life. She’s detail oriented and patient with me providing me guidance throughout the entire process. She also managed to make me feel comfortable and confident to entrust her with my life and plannings moving ahead. | | | Hui ling, Pharmacist I got to know Vivian when I was back from abroad and was looking into my healthcare and financial planning. Throughout these couple of years, she’s been patience and honest about the plannings and explanation to ensure I’m aware of the changes and plans in place for me. She is very open-minded and spends extra time to share her knowledge before any recommendations or products. I enjoy working with her as I can feel her sincerity and non-pushy approach giving me time to decide on any plannings before we proceed further. | | | Georgina, Real Estate Consultant Met Vivian through our mutual friend and enjoyed working with her, the entire experience was very different. Even though we are friends, she displayed professionalism when it comes to her work and imparted her financial planning knowledge when advising us. She also ensures we have a proper understanding of our portfolio and planning as she emphasised on the important of long term partnership of working closely together through the different seasons in life. | | | Kian Wee, Director I have had the pleasure of working with Vivian Yong for my company’s workers' insurance, and I can confidently say that she provides exceptional service. Vivian is incredibly responsive and always willing to go the extra mile to ensure all of our needs are met. What truly sets her apart is her proactive approach—she constantly researches ongoing promotions and advises us on the best options available, which has been invaluable for our company. I highly recommend Vivian for anyone seeking a knowledgeable, dedicated, and customer-focused insurance agent. | | | | |